Local family lawyers from Resolution, which represents family justice professionals committed to the constructive resolution of family disputes, on 23 February called for sweeping changes to the laws surrounding divorce and separation.
Local family lawyer and Resolution member said:
“Divorce can be one of the most traumatic life events a family can go through, and we all have a responsibility to ensure it’s dealt with in a way that minimises conflict, encourages amicable solutions where possible, and – most importantly – puts the needs of children first.
“The fact is that, despite the family justice system going through a period of huge transformation in recent years – not least with the devastating cuts to legal aid – the laws governing it are woefully outdated, inadequate and unfair to many people.
“With nearly a quarter of a million people getting divorced each year and around 100,000 children seeing their parents divorce, our laws are in desperate need of change.”
Resolution’s Manifesto makes six key calls for change.
It asks the next government to:
- Protect vulnerable people going through separation
- Introduce measures to keep divorce out of court
- Introduce a Parenting Charter to help parents understand their responsibilities when they separate
- Allow people to divorce without blame
- Give people more financial clarity on divorce
- Provide at least basic legal rights for couples who live together if they separate
Calls for change go back many years
Despite repeated calls for reform, particularly around the issues of assigning blame in divorce, and rights for cohabiting couples, our laws have gone unchanged, says Resolution.
A spokesperson for Macks said: “What we’re calling for is nothing new. Successive governments of different political compositions have failed to address these issues. In my practice at Macks Solicitors in every day I see the fall out to families caused by these outdated laws.”
“It’s hard to believe that in 2015 we still have this charade of having to assign blame if you want a divorce and haven’t been separated for at least two years – even if both spouses agree their marriage is at an end. It makes it much harder for people to resolve their dispute and introduces conflict into the process”
“In 2007, the Law Commission recommended reforming the laws that apply to cohabitants if they separate. We now have nearly 6 million unmarried people living together in the UK, many of whom are still under the illusion that they have the same rights as married couples if they separate.
“While families have changed, our laws have not.”
Parenting Charter
A key part of Resolution’s manifesto is their Parenting Charter, drawn up with the help of a group of young people whose parents have divorced or separated, which sets out what children should be able to expect from their parents during and after their divorce.
“The way the current law around divorce is set up encourages conflict. Essentially people who are divorcing are stuck in a pincer, between emotional hurt and the loss of a relationship on one side, and a legal system that encourages recrimination and blame on the other.”
“Parents can get caught up in the heat of the moment during divorce and start thinking of their former partner as the enemy, and not as the mother or father of their child. People often think about children’s interests in the sense of their material wellbeing – but it’s the emotional impact of seeing their parents in conflict that creates lasting psychological scars for children.”
Divorce can have repercussions that last for life
“Our Parenting Charter aims to remind divorcing or separating parents that children are individuals with their own rights to information and a voice during the separation process.”
“Resolution recently published the findings of a survey of young people whose parents had separated or divorced. The results show the extent of the impact of divorce conflict on children, with 14% of the young people surveyed saying that they started drinking alcohol, or drinking more alcohol than previously, as a result of their parents’ divorce. Arguably more concerning, 13% admitted to experimenting, or thinking about experimenting, with drugs as a result of their parents’ break-up. There is a duty to ensure that the divorce is handled in a way that helps to mitigate the impact on children.”
“Ultimately, a high conflict divorce, which is encouraged by the system, often sees children caught up in adult disputes. This can have repercussions for children that will last for life”.
